docs: use <repo>/<rel path> links throughout, document the convention

All cross-skill links now spell out the repository: skills-public/foo.md,
skills-private/bar.md. These resolve from the shared parent directory, so one
spelling works from either repo and from code-languages/ subdirectories —
replacing the previous mix of ./, ../ and absolute file:// URLs. Link labels
normalised to match. Convention added to the README conventions list.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

code-languages/rust.md

@@ -8,7 +8,7 @@ description: >-
 
 # Rust — Rules & Preferences
 
-Extends [`../coding-dev.md`](../coding-dev.md). Everything there applies; this adds Rust specifics.
+Extends [`coding-dev.md`](skills-public/coding-dev.md). Everything there applies; this adds Rust specifics.
 
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@@ -193,5 +193,5 @@ dependencies builds and tests directly on the host, which is seconds instead of
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 ## 11. Related
-- [`../coding-dev.md`](../coding-dev.md) — the general rules this extends.
-- [`c-cpp.md`](./c-cpp.md) — when bindgen/FFI crosses into a C library.
+- [`coding-dev.md`](skills-public/coding-dev.md) — the general rules this extends.
+- [`c-cpp.md`](skills-public/code-languages/c-cpp.md) — when bindgen/FFI crosses into a C library.